When you have gone out on a date with a man, you may think that it will be fairly easy to connect with him. Unfortunately, things don't usually work out this way as there are a lot of intricate issues that have significant impacts in the relationship.

When it comes to communication, men tend to score rather poorly. While we would love to call them and chat, they don't seem to care about this need. In order for you to get out of this dilemma, there are a number of things you need to bear in mind. Here are some of helpful tips that will help you out. 

Broaden your perspective

You should realize that men usually think in a different way from us. This therefore means that their communication is also different. Hence when you just take things from your thinking point of view, you will hardly solve the issue.  You need to have some understanding of how men communicate, especially how they tend to apply the phone. There are some rules that you should follow when it comes to making calls between you and your boyfriend.

You are pretty lucky if you find a man who picks up the phone to call you often. Many of them rarely make use of this important mode of communication. This can be very frustrating as you would like to speak with your man nearly all the time.  So the first thing you should be prepared for is to have a thick skin. Don't let a couple of days that pass without any communication from him dampen your spirits. This is very likely to happen.

You may get understandably concerned if your boyfriend used to call you from time to time then he suddenly stops. There are very slim chances that this is because he has met another lady.   

This may be his way of testing the waters to see how you will react. Ironically, you will be less appealing to him if you appear too eager to hear from him. This is because men love to chase things.