Many of us who have dated men have faced the frustration of dealing with men who do not enjoy calling us. This is something you can face right at the beginning of your relationship or even when the relationship has grown steadily.

As much as you would like to talk with your guy over the phone, he may seem not to be aware of this opportunity that technology has availed. Why is the relationship between your man and the phone so strange?

Although there are various reasons why men do not generally call us, many ladies get the reasons quite wrong. Here are some of the basic factors you should be aware of.

He is trying to see your reaction

While you may think that your boyfriend does not call because he has forgotten all about you, the fact may be that he is actually thinking of you. He may do this as a test to see how you will handle the situation. How long are you going to wait before you decide to call him? If you go ahead and call within a couple of days to ask about his lack of calling, you will give him the impression that you have very strong feelings towards him. While it is not bad for him to be aware of this fact, the problem is that this comfort will make him put even less effort in coming after you. This means that you will make him just call even more rarely.

The best way of sparking off his desire is to avoid calling him. When you challenge your man to chase after you in this way, you have better chances of success. He will value you more when he puts more effort to win your affection.

If he calls and leaves you a message, you should answer him - but not immediately. Call him, say, after a day or so and do not start being apologetic.

When you want to impress your boyfriend, you should heighten his curiosity. He will call to find out what is taking place on your side.