It may seem
very logical to call the man you love and have a chat with him, but
this may not necessarily be the right thing to do. Why is it so?
Things sometimes work out in a strange way
in life. While it may seem very logical to call the man you love and
have a chat with him, this may not necessarily be the right thing to
do. However, this does not mean that there is nothing you can do if you
would like to get more time with him.
There are a number of guidelines that will
help you to handle the issue of phone calls more appropriately. This
article is aimed at giving you some important highlights.
When he leaves you a message
Your man may call when you were away. When
you receive his message, it is only fair of you to return his call. Let
him know that you appreciate his effort and then let him take it from
there. Don't go ahead and ask him for another date. On the other hand,
if you would not like to encourage the relationship, thank him for his
generosity but make it plain - in a polite way - that you don't want to
give him a false lead.
Thank him in person
When you go out on a great date, you should not wait until the following day to call and thank him. Do this before you part.
Although we live in a world of gender
equality, there are still some rules you need to play along with if you
want a strong relationship. One of them is letting the man do the
calling. Men by nature love chasing things but don't appreciate being
chased after. And making frequent phone calls will make you appear to
be doing just that. When you let him do the chasing, you will manage to
catch him!
In any organized place, there are rules that
ensure things run smoothly. You should not expect any less in a dating
relationship.
Understand him
You should understand that there are
inherent differences between men and women. This will help you to see
things from his perspective.
You should keep yourself busy instead of
just waiting for him to call now that you know that you shouldn't do
it. You will be in a better mood when he finally calls. And he will
call - unless he wants to end the relationship.